Remembering a Year Abroad
May 21st, 2008Part One: Setting Off
“The core of man’s spirit comes from new experiences.”
-Christopher McCandless, “Into the Wild”
A year ago, a 20-year-old American, halfway through college and working my fourth boring summer as an assistant locksmith, I discovered BlogAbroad.com and submitted an application during some down time from cutting keys. “I have a genuine desire to explore the world and learn as much from my study abroad experience as possible,” I wrote. I made the most of my summer and my time with my friends, but part of me wanted it to pass in a flash so I could get to the fresh journey ahead of me.
I sat on the plane in September and remember thinking that up until that point, everything had been mapped out, but from this point on, I had no idea what was to come. The first of a few gut-reaction scribbles from the notebook I carried with me at all times over the year reads: “I’ve always had this whole adventure laid completely out in my mind’s eye. The minute I got in my seat on the plane to London, all my ideas totally compressed and all I was able to focus on was the next step: landing in London. For once, my plan-oriented mind is on lockdown.” It was one of the most exciting feelings I’d ever had.

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The culture shock during my first month in the UK shot from nil to extreme and ping-ponged back and forth at random. It was surprisingly easy and normal for the first few days, then extremely hard and upsetting for a few days – I need look no further than the long rant in my notebook beginning with “THIS IS HARD” than to remember that. When the experience really started for me – when I began to truly believe my original hopes that this could be a life-changing, unbelievable opportunity - was the first few days in my student accommodation. As more and more international students arrived, I was beside myself to learn I would have 22 flatmates from around the world. In the course of a few days, I met friendly, exciting people from Argentina, Italy, Austria, South Korea, Spain, Switzerland, France, Germany, Martinique, Ireland, Wales and England – and they were all in the same position as me: Students looking to have the experience of a lifetime in a new place.
Part Two: Living Abroad: Flat and Flatmates
“A journey is best measured in friends, rather than miles.”
-Tim Cahill
I quickly began to learn that the most profound way my world view was going to expand was by talking to the people I lived with. At all parts of the day, the kitchen was bustling with conversation. Cooking, playing cards, speaking and learning various languages, using slang, pioneering inside jokes – everything was an opportunity to learn more about the nature of each other’s cultures, countries, and lifestyles.

Dressed up for Eddi’s last night in Bangor before returning to Germany.

Seeing my old British friends from UMaine throughout the year was awesome, as well.
We made each other traditional dinners, celebrated Halloween and Thanksgiving in huge ways, and commemorated everyone’s birthdays with huge, international parties with at least four languages audible within a few yards (meters!). We lived together, forged through the experience together, and traveled together, including big trips to Amsterdam, Cardiff, and all around north Wales in close-knit groups from the flat.

Internationality: Young Jun from Korea and Elena from Italy.

Our group trip to see Anglesey, the north most part of Wales.
Sparing every little story, joke, and life lesson contained from September to May – which is best as it was truly our own adventure and will never be able to fully translate to any of our friends or families – I can say that being with those people led to some of the best times of my life. And as Elena said after returning to Italy in the middle of the year (so many of my closest new friends only stayed for one semester…only to have their rooms filled by new, awesome international pals-to-be): “It’s so special to think about having so many friends somewhere in the world, it makes feel part of something great and good.” I concur; I feel a part of something big and brilliant. The mantra to all gloomy mates departing Bangor was that although the wonderful experience had come to a close for them, the memories would always remain, and the strongest friendships would continue to influence their lives.

Ladies in the kitchen. England, Argentina, Italy, Germany, Switzerland, France represent.

Great group shot from the Bangor reunion in Austria.

Group trip to seaside Llandudno in beautiful north Wales. We just hung out at this high point above the town and watched the sheep and admired the landscape for a peaceful afternoon.
Part Three: Academics
“You must have learned a lifetime worth of info being over there.”
-AJ Harvey, friend and shreddin’ guitarist of Last Chance to Reason
The University of Wales, Bangor and the British education system was a huge difference from what I’d been familiarized with in two years at UMaine. Three classes per semester, seven or eight hours of class per week. Small seminar groups with a lot of class participation, intense analyzing, and a lot of independent work – to do or to neglect – outside of class. One or two essays per semester, maybe one test, usually some kind of presentation. I was able to take my first film classes, and I dove in with three. Studying Dickens in the UK was one of my favorite treats, academically speaking. I also wrote one of my best essays (and definitely longest) yet for college: a 4,200-worder about the Korean director Im Kwon-Taek for my East Asian Culture and Cinema course.

Main Arts, where I attended all of my lectures. Yes, I had class in a castle for a year.
Part Four: Travels
“The journey is my home.”
-Muriel Rukeyser
I left the year broke as a joke (“skint,” in Cockney speak), mostly due to my abundant travels (if you ignore the everything’s-twice-as-expensive-in-the-UK bit…). Traveling to the maximum was my goal, and that’s one thing I can never have regrets about the year which has passed. I feel I did about as much traveling as I possibly could have from September to May, and saw nearly everything I wanted to see. I fell in love with Europe and loved what the journeys I embarked on and the places they took me to. The rest, I’ll get to later, no hard feelings. The list I am most proud of among many in my notebook is the places I went over the year:
Haywards Heath/Brighton, England
London, England (six times over the year)
Bangor, Wales (lived here)
Conwy, Wales (twice over the year)
Llandudno, Wales
Beaumaris, Wales
Llanfairpwllgwyngyllgogerychwyrndrobwllllantysiliogogogoch, Wales (three times over the year)
Anglesey (various places around the island), Wales
Holyhead/Valley, Wales
Cardiff/Cardiff Bay, Wales
Rome, Italy
Amsterdam, The Netherlands
Dolgellau, Wales
Chester, England
Hull, England
Caernarfon, Wales
Llanberis/Mount Snowdon, Wales
Nottingham, England
Birmingham, England
Liverpool, England
Paris, France
Versailles, France
Marseilles, France
Nice, France
Innsbruck, Austria
Budweis, Czech Republic
Hluboká, Czech Republic
Krumlov, Czech Republic
Dobčice and Holašovice villages, Czech Republic
Prague, Czech Republic
Reading, England
Dublin, Ireland

For space reasons, I will not post pictures from even close to all of these places. Here are some of my favorites. The first: The Pantheon in Rome, completely alone in the plaza around 1 a.m. on my final night. Check out the Bella Roma video montage here.

View from Bangor Mountain. This was a favorite spot in the my Welsh hometown.

One of my last afternoons in Bangor; the view from Bangor Meadows. Beautiful occurrences like this happens a lot in a place as cloudy as Wales.

Castle Cat: I became an avid castle collector. I saw my first in Wales, and a subsequent eight more across Wales, England, and Europe.

The gang on Mount Snowdon on my last day in Wales.

Czech flag flying over Prague.
A more comprehensive breakdown of the first semester and the travels involved – with many more pictures - can be found here. I will also post a comprehensive list of my albums on here for your perusal soon.
Seeing new places was always a peak of thrill and awe for me. I was rarely happier than when I was in a completely new city, country, or environment. As the year came to a close, I compiled another list; a handful of the little differences across Europe that I will miss in the US: different light switches, the taste of milk, various faucets and toilet flushes, greeting styles, hearing snatches of conversation on streets and trying to guess the language, being able to say goodnight to my flatmates in three or four different languages.
Part Five: Epilogue
“Once you have traveled, the voyage never ends, but is played out over and over again in the quiestest chambers. The mind can never break off from the journey.”
-Pat Conroy
A couple days before I was set to leave the UK, a chica named Magda, my newest Spanish flatmate, told me: “I had two dreams in my life: to go to London and to go to New York.” It had been a long time since I’d thought about dreams, and Magda’s naked honesty and enthusiasm as she spoke of visiting London this semester shook me from the conclusion of my own lifelong dream. That finally began to hit me as I sat in Heathrow Airport and wrote down this epilogue and its underlying thought: I lived a dream this year.
Since age ten, when I spent two years watching back-to-back 17-year-olds from Czech Republic and Sweden live and learn under my family’s roof, finding my own parallel experience has been a dream. I may be too goal- and checklist-oriented to have been aware of that all along, but even through the dripping sentimentality of saying goodbye to the international friends I made in Wales, I began to see the nature of dreams clearly. From the moment George left the sight of my crying, 11-year-old eyes to return to the Czech Republic, I dreamed of seeing him one day in Budweis or Prague. When I missed out on a school trip to Ireland in 9th grade, I dreamed of visiting the Emerald Isle, waxing poetic about returning to the motherland of some of my ancestry (me mam’s maiden name’s O’Connor, aye). I think without digging too deep or fictionalizing too much, I could come up with a similar dream for nearly everywhere I went and everything I did in the last year.
A more recent dream, also dressed in the guise of a mere goal, was articulated repeatedly in my study abroad candidacy, my BlogAbroad application, and in answers to the curious and sometimes heated friends and family asking why I wanted to do this, or why for a full year?
“I want to immerse myself in a foreign culture for one year. I want to feel like I really lived there, not just visited. And I want a better understand of the world.”
That’s pretty much verbatim, and pretty much accomplished – well, wait, I’m ticking off checkboxes again. Let’s try that the right way: my dream came true.
Now I have new dreams: dreams of returning to Europe as soon as possible; dropping everything and buying a plane ticket if I haven’t gone within five years; seeing my new friends – my international family – at home in the US; at their homes, be they Reims, France; Alicante or Vigo, Spain; Padova or Udine, Italy; Bremen, Germany; Hong Kong or a dozen other places around the world. Or maybe we’ll reunite in entirely new places for each of us. I dream of quenching what feels like an insatiable thirst to travel by learning about and seeing more of the US – of my home – Tennessee, Nantucket, and Chicago ranking high on the list at the moment. I dream of actually being employed to travel and recount the adventures with words; of exciting others to explore, dream, discover, in the peerless words of Mr. Twain. As for the year which has somehow concluded in the blink of an eye…I dream of never forgetting.

Cheers and farewell, Wales, Europe, and friends. On to the next step of my life, with this experience always in my mind.
Thank you for reading. Pursue and enjoy your dreams and adventures.
Zach Dionne, May 20, 2008


















































































